Humeurs d'hommes..

NOTE TO MY MALE READERS

Gentlemen, go on and read. I deliberately banished the M or E words* that makes every great, smart, courageous and amazing guy (in daily life) freak out.

I know, u're not all the same, but please tell me if I am, or not, close to the truth:


You want to have a special and unique woman in ur life,
But you don't realize that that woman can not be perfect, (are u perfect urself?)

You want us to make the first step,
But if we do, it scares u off.

You want us to trust u,
But u’re not willing to trust us back.

You want us to understand u,
But u’re not willing to let us deeply know u first so that u won’t need to explain later on.

You want us in ur lives,
But u're not willing to give us enough space or time.

You want us to love u unconditionally, trust u blindly, and respect u intensely,
But when we do, either u panic or u take us for granted (and this is a HUGE mistake).

You want us to be ur mistresses, mothers, sisters, eternal cheerleaders, friends and soul mates,
We are willing to, but only with Mr Right.

You want us to be there when u need to talk, have fun, and discuss serious and trivial things.
We are ready to. But we also want u to come to us when things are not doing fine, when u feel down, or when something goes wrong.

You don’t want us to put u under pressure,
But u won’t make a move forward if we don’t.

You think we are delicate creatures,
We are, but we are stronger than what u could ever imagine. Try us.

You want to understand us,
You just need to listen to what we say.

You have doubts, and wonder if we're really the One for u,
We have the same doubts, if not more, but we think hard and try to take the right decision.

You want to be the first, the best, the only,
You are. Absolutely. When we fall in love with u.

* Marriage or Exclusivity respectively (shut, keep it quiet, or we may cause a heart attack to someone).