Ok. It's not easy AT ALL to understand women. (Pas la peine de vous réjouir Messieurs, j'en prépare un autre sur les hommes!!).
We want u so bad and want to know u more,
But we want u to make the first step (and insist plz!).
We want u to call us, and show us u care,
But we need to know that u can also live without us (this makes u more attractive to us, God knows why!!).
We want to see u very often, or all the time,
But we don't, or rarely, admit it.
We want u to love, want and need us,
But we want u to keep in mind that we're respectable young women even if we feel the same way about u (this is cultural I guess).
We want to make u feel jealous sometimes (it actually feels so good),
But we want u to deeply trust us all the time even if we sometimes hang out with H, I, or M..
We want u to treat us with respect,
But we also want u to see naughty side of us too (désolée pour les ames sensibles).
We want u to treat us as equals,
But we want u to treat us like delicate creatures or princesses (with gallantry, on s'en fout de la Moudawana ).
We want confident men with strong personalities, who can take decisions and know what they want from life,
But we want men with doubts too so that we could help, and be there when u need us.
We want busy and important men.
But we want those same men to give us time, affection and attention (which is almost impossible because of the line before...)
We want u to have an active social life,
But we want to be part of it (did I mention the word HUGE??).
We want u to be independent from ur moms,
But we want merdiyin lwalidin (et surtout lwalida).
We want u to know everything,
But we don’t like feeling like des blondes next to u (je représente les brunes :) ).
We want u to understand us, and know that there's sth wrong when we keep silent for a long while.
But we want to be mysterious, and keep our secret gardens (nothing to be ashamed of, just secret gardens).
We want a superman,
But we want a normal man at the same time.
We want to talk to u and tell u how we feel (about u, about ourselves, life, friends, parrot, or blog)
But we don’t want to look like we’re getting deep and intimate, or rushing things up and scare u off.
We want to understand u so that we could know what to think, or not.
We want u to know that we can't read minds. Not even ours sometimes.
We just need to know where we stand so that we could go on with our lives.
To be continued...
lundi 14 mai 2007
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Sbah elkhir.
OK I read your post and my comment is telling you 10 things you don't know about men:
1.We simply LOVE you, we want to be around you all the time (ok maybe not during soccer games)
2.You'll never know how far we are willing to go for you
3.We don't mind going shopping with you especially if you take us to lingerie shops (please avoid asking us during sales periods)
4.We enjoy shopping for you
5.We respect you more than you think
6.We'll make up our minds when you'll make up yours !!!
7.We love it when you show us your naughty side (ok, not Darth Vador dark side, the other one, well you know what I mean)
8.You'll never get Star Wars but we love you all the same
9.We miss you all the time but we like to be missed too (the phone works both ways you know!)
10.You have NO IDEA how bad we need you.
Beware!!! Saba strikes again with another great post. Many thanks for the hand. You made women seem even more complex than before. It would take us another twenty years to learn to do all that:)
Mais bon, il faut assumer ces choix :)
Thank you gentlemen, it feels so good to read ur comments, and see that women and men feel the same about each other actually.
But how come we can never say such things that openly and clearly to the persons we like, without having to ask every single men, (from brothers, cousins and male friends, without talking about those poor best girl friends who are always present for us),to read hundreds (yes we do, well, at least this works for me) of articles about relationships, about initiating the 'Talk', playing hard to get, understanding men's way of thinking (pretty hard ladies, hm?), how to become indispensable, how to be natural, attractive AND mysterious (didnt manage to understand that one yet)... La liste est longue, très longue, et les articles qui traitent su sujet ne manquent pas non plus...
And guys, one thing! this is hard for us to say, but we can know everything, from making a delicious couscous (I personally don't, but am willing to learn!) to the situation out there in Irak, Ouganda, or China, speak 5 languages, and have a brilliant academic and personal cursus, but we can't understand why on hell we can't understand what's going on ur mind. Pretty frustrating... :)
Well, what's the use of "poor best friends" if they don't share our hard times and say "Amen" whenever we curse that need we have for those mysterious beings!!
(hehe don't be scared guys!! But u won't deny it huh? U can be haaaaaaarsh sometimes!)
Kaoutar, the friends are here to show us that we're blessed. That God/(insert whatever supreme force u believe in) loves us enough to make people love us. Not all of them, but special ones (I wonder if sth can be done about George Clooney and me...:)).
Thank u for existing and being part (important one) of my life.
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